Confidence - Daily Inspiration Series | Episode 4
Confidence is the devotion to
honoring oneself, taking action to build self-esteem and promote health on all levels. What we believe,
we create. If we believe that we are
somehow "not enough", that is the very image we project. What we project we also tend to attract.
Those who are self-critical, or who feel
"less than" others, will tend to
draw people and circumstances into their lives that are not in their best interests.
One of the biggest keys to creating confidence
is to direct our
attention to our positive qualities and talents.
We live in a
consumer society which sends the message that we
never have enough.
We feel compelled to acquire things to make us
thinner, less wrinkled, more beautiful,
and powerful. The end result is often good for business but leaves many people feeling empty at the end of the day.
Confidence does not come from diet pills, beauty
products, or all the other marketable
"confidence" creators. Confidence is the result of a conscious decision to focus our energy on abundance,
our natural talents, and positive
qualities. The more confident we become, the more capable we are. The end result of developing a strong sense of
self worth is that we begin to naturally attract
healthier conditions, from physical
health to our relationships.
NOW LET’S DO THIS!
Look at yourself in a full length mirror if you
have one available.
How do you hold yourself? Do you tend to slouch,
hold your head down, look away without
truly seeing yourself? What feelings do you have?
Do you immediately start pointing out perceived
flaws? There can be several keys to our
confidence level discovered in the way we look at ourselves. The goal is not to look at physical
appearance so much as it is to witness
how you perceive yourself.
Make a journal; discuss your thoughts and
feelings
while looking in the mirror, then list the
different traits or talents (not focusing
on the physical) that boost your
confidence. Make a conscious effort to direct your thoughts towards these areas when critical self-talk
sets in. After you have done this, look
again at yourself in the full-length mirror while concentrating on these various talents or strengths. How does this
affect things such as posture, eye contact and
interactions?